How to get laid... and also how not...

[Chakra-X]

And honestly why do you think i asked her out?? for fun?? it was to see if we could be more then friends and i know i would have regreted it if i didn't ask her out.

I asked you that to see if you had anything to base your infatuation on. Looks, personality, how she treats you, etc. That would help me see if this attempt had a decent foundation.

Everything I do has a purpose :X

Now...Have you ever hung out with her outside of class? Is the only time you talk to her during that class? Does she speak to you, or do you speak to her (meaning, who usually starts the conversations)?

You know, this may be too late, but for future reference: Ask them if they want to hang out, not on a date (assuming you asked her on a date). Not like if you want to see a movie or not. I know people I talk with every day in class, but I doubt they would see a movie with me a lone, that's comming on too strong.

He gets girls so easy and goes through relationships like a bag of chips.

lol I would never take advice from someone like that... He may be more charismatic than you though.

 

[MC]

But my friend is the dude who everyone loves i hate it. He gets girls so easy and goes through relationships like a bag of chips.

Your friend had to start somewhere, usually the same spot everyone starts from - the bottom. You start from the bottom and work your way up (that's pretty obvious). Now, the work required to get out from the bottom has to be done by yourself, not by your friend. This is the same with most things in life, where you have to rely on yourself.

 

[SA_Gohan]

But my friend is the dude who everyone loves i hate it. He gets girls so easy and goes through relationships like a bag of chips.

Then examine how he acts, how he treats people, emulate what you like about him, and avoid what you don't
Don't be jealous, be glad that you have an awesome example of what you eventually want to achieve. Jealousy over the skills and abilities other people have is not only pointless but harmful to yourself. Believe me.

Don't compare yourself against your friend, compare yourself against where you were. Chance are the mere thought of asking out a girl (and the possibility of rejection) scared you ****less these first two times, but you did anyway. If you can keep that up in not only dating, but in everything you do, not only will it stop scaring you and hurting your chances with women, but women will start taking an interest in you.

Just wait, and keep learning from your mistakes. It'll definitely happen

 

[Alkon]

Yeah scared****less sounds about right. I don't really give a **** about my friend. MC you stated the obvious. Chakra usally one of us starts a conversation but im usually too nervous to talk to her now though i don't care. Well you see shes got the looks shes nice funny and says these random things out of the blue and i kind of like that. She treats me nicely and with respect. This aint helping dude i really want to forget this, get over it and be normal i haven't felt the same ever since.

 

[Chakra-X]

Yeah scared****less sounds about right. I don't really give a **** about my friend. MC you stated the obvious. Chakra usally one of us starts a conversation but im usually too nervous to talk to her now though i don't care. Well you see shes got the looks shes nice funny and says these random things out of the blue and i kind of like that. She treats me nicely and with respect. This aint helping dude i really want to forget this, get over it and be normal i haven't felt the same ever since.

My apologies. It's great you want to move on. But this is the kind of stuff you learn from, so there is no hurt in looking back to what you did right/wrong. I am also not completely speaking about that specific girl, but for future references.

Not to be a smartass or anything, but making a thread about it would get you replies, meaning it would make it harder for you to move on =P

 

[Hitokiri]

There are plenty worse feelings in the world Alkon, and you'll probably feel them too, so don't be such a wussenheimer on level 1 here.

 

[Alkon]

Gee thanx for the vote of confidence Hitokiri. Its ok chakra this is the stuff you do indeed learn from. Yes it may have been stupid to make this thread.

 

[Chakra-X]

Gee thanx for the vote of confidence Hitokiri.

lol tough love is all. Like I said, you got lucky. You got a hug out of it! That's not bad. Some girls would have been MUCH nastier and made you feel like **** on purpose.

 

[Alkon]

Yep i will remember that hug for a long time. I suspect she only did it as she could see the sadness in my face before i almost cried.

 

[Hishi]

Yea... love hurts and life sucks. But ya gotta get your crap together and get over it. =p

Harsh but true. I've been burned much worse before but time heals wounds... although sometimes if strong feelings were involved there may be marks left behind even after the pain is gone.

 

[Eon]

Gee thanx for the vote of confidence Hitokiri. Its ok chakra this is the stuff you do indeed learn from. Yes it may have been stupid to make this thread.

You made the thread dude...not everyone is going to post in here and compliment you for 5 pages.

 

[Pemalite]

Yep i will remember that hug for a long time. I suspect she only did it as she could see the sadness in my face before i almost cried.

Yeah you will remember that hug for many years to come, and possibly that moment will play back in your mind at different times in the future also.

And women are crazy creatures, no one understands them, they change they're minds faster than one can blink. And they are amazingly persuasive, and get what they desire most of the time... DAMN YOU FEMALES!!!

Still they have up-sides, they cook, they clean, good source of information about you're neighbors, they create midget sized human beings, which in-turn yell, dribble, and yick! and amazingly provide the best source of comfort in the forms of hugz! -and also the best creatures to have on your side during a fight, as most males won't ever hit one, and they have attitude!

Still, she did the right thing, At least she said 'no' and did not lead you down the garden path, and take you for your moneys worth.

When you get oldER, and settle down, you will probably come across the right girl, and forget about all of this, In my opinion there is several compatible matches for true love.

Honestly, I just upgrade my partner like I would a computer part (Kidding! -And for all the female ESF fans, I wasn't being sexist I was just trying to joke around! Please have mercy! I am only a gold fish!)

I also have only dated a girl once, Otherwise I just go clubbing with my army.

If your only having relationship troubles - Then you are doing very well indeed. (I won't go on about my past, relationships, family - I would probably get banned from ESF forums for to many swear words or somethin')

 

[Alkon]

Yeah you will remember that hug for many years to come, and possibly that moment will play back in your mind at different times in the future also.

That moment plays back in my head almost everyday. It will be with me for a while.

 

[PiXel]

Yep i will remember that hug for a long time.

probably till you get the next girl.
I know now will come: i won't want another girl
you will want another girl so badly once i was once so heartbroken that even a smile and a eyemoment of a cute blonde girl made me forgett about that girl wich broked my heart. I mean *swip* i forget her.

dunno why... but since this situation i got mind changed and i like mainly blond haired gals.
Even after this im up to many other girls... though there is one thing... I like the girl wich smiled up to me more then any other girl. She was simply to cute to forgett lol. Though im cool with it to have other girls.

Owell useless for now to tell you that heh, it all comes with self expierience.


And about your friend... everyone loves him? he has many releation ships? be sure if you want to be the same person as him first.
This guy is not you ;P he is self expierind , you not probably.


now again: good luck on the girl you will get, be sure not to be shy! Shyness ruins "alot"!!!!!

 

[wheres_]

Just go top yourself, it's easier that way.

 

[Tsunami]

Ever saw those kids in a wheelchair or other disabilities, not being able to walk or go swimming or go outside?
They have the right to say "my life sucks"

QFT! I'm one of those wheelchair bound kids....(Well not a kid, I'm 22) and letme tell you, you got it easy when you asked here out. Last time I asked someone out they burst out laughing saying "The cripple wants to date me??!!"

/end rant

 

[Eon]

QFT! I'm one of those wheelchair bound kids....(Well not a kid, I'm 22) and letme tell you, you got it easy when you asked here out. Last time I asked someone out they burst out laughing saying "The cripple wants to date me??!!"

/end rant

Point. Set. Match.

 

[vinay87]

OK, whats with this Topics title? I was sure it was something to do with "My life Sucks"


ON-Topic (whatever that happens to be): Well, go put your head under some cold water. It'll cool you off. And then take some time to listen to metal. If you arent deaf by the end of the day, then you're good to go.

 

[Alkon]

QFT! I'm one of those wheelchair bound kids....(Well not a kid, I'm 22) and letme tell you, you got it easy when you asked here out. Last time I asked someone out they burst out laughing saying "The cripple wants to date me??!!"

/end rant

Now that is just cold and heartless. My wheel chair bound friend has the same problem.

Vinay87 someone changed the title on me!
I listen to heavy metal alot. And the depressing music. I don't know why though.

 

[Pemalite]

QFT! I'm one of those wheelchair bound kids....(Well not a kid, I'm 22) and letme tell you, you got it easy when you asked here out. Last time I asked someone out they burst out laughing saying "The cripple wants to date me??!!"

/end rant

And if they say that, it just shows that they are vain. Those that are wheel-chair bound, are just as capable as everyone else, I don't think some people realize we all bleed the same color of blood, or they are worried about they're image and what people say about them behind they're backs.

Seriously though... some people need to wake-up and know that those that are less fortunate also have feelings.

Anyway Tsunami -I think your wikid! ^.^

I listen to heavy metal alot. And the depressing music. I don't know why though.

lmao, When I am in a downer, I just play Spice girls, smurfs and all those bouncy cheerful songs! It really gets meh going!
Just remember not get 'The song that never ends' Stuck in your head, it will more than likely drive you nuts, And everyone around ya.