There are a million threads like this one. People just don't understand the concept that:
These people created their own server, with their own rules, for their own fun. If they don't want you there, it's their right to make you leave.
Clearly, if the amount that their getting owned is such that they can't have any fun, they should go ahead and toss you out to look for another server. If you can't deal with that, make your own, or join one of the 6 friggin' official servers that are always brimming with people.
What I don't get is why some players might get a kick out of joining some random server hosted by some random newb and beating on them and their friends mercilessly, even after they realize said noob doesn't have a chance; and then making that extra effort, perhaps, to be a ****head and come back to bother them more. If a server has stupid rules or stupid people that you don't like, YOU HAVE THE CHOICE TO LEAVE.
Then, after getting tossed from undedicated noobhouse to undedicated noobhouse, such people come in here and proceed to lament about how awesome they are and why they hate getting kicked from newbie servers, and then other people come in and go "Yeah I'm awesome too, I hate those newbies!" etc. etc.
My respect to zero and nightie, but come on people. Seriously.