a serious question about love.

[KelesK]

Push your luck mate! Who knows you may end up with an angry exhusband after your head!

 

[vahn9]

just a question how do you fall in love with someone over the internet? i like dating people i can see but maybe thats just me im not trying to be mean or anything so no one take it that way

 

[Sonic the Vampire]

just a question how do you fall in love with someone over the internet? i like dating people i can see but maybe thats just me im not trying to be mean or anything so no one take it that way

It might be easier to understand if you were more accustomed to people treating you poorly or being lonely. When someone extends a kindness to you that you've never experienced before, or you make a connection with someone who finally understands you for what seems like the first time you've ever felt truly understood in your life, it's easy to fall in love with someone. It might be more love for the concept of meeting and falling in love with that person in real life at some later time, but it's a kind of love all the same, and you don't want to lose that person for anything.

 

[Sicron]

No, my mother throughout my life has always been there for me.

I think one of my friends described me best by saying....

"Dude, your the kind of person that when your shown kindness, compassion and affection it affects you more than any other person. This is probably why you fall for people so easily."


I don't get treated by people very well. Why? A lot of it is because I'm in a wheelchair, I'm not normal. And a lot of people in society don't like people who arnt normal. Girls my age treat me like ****. If I can't walk, not skinny and not sexy they don't care about me. My friend in Australia at least cares about me, showed me friendship, compassion and affection. She doesn't care if I'm in a wheelchair, she actually tried to get to know me, to understand me. I guess this is why I have feelings for her.

You are not giving yourself enough credit. Women don't always look at how you look, at least, that's not the girl you'd want to have. You want to have the ones that like personality. I myself am not one of the best looking guys around and I know that, but I don't care. I don't use what I don't have, but I do use what I do have. Whenever I am around people usually laugh, partly because I sometimes act 'dumb' and I am a pretty sarcastic guy which is always a good laugh, and some girls really like that. And it is those girls you want to find.

Just be yourself, don't think "Damn, I can't get a girlfriend because I am ugly/in a wheelchair" use those things to your advantage, try making [sarcastic] jokes about your disabilities, that is, if you feel okay with that. Anything you don't feel okay with, you shouldn't do. Girls love a good sense of humour, nothing beats that.

 

[Odin]

Yeah. I'm gonna lay off, not say anything to her. I wanna keep our friendship, not ruin it and her family.

*Deeeeep breath*

I thought this topic was over with after he wrote that...Honestly I think you should stick to what you said, and just leave it be. There are a lot of truths/realities that you aren't looking into far enough,and you don't want everyone to fill your head with fairytale ideas of how it's a good idea to tell her and get you to do something you'll regret in the future. Trust me, I've been there and done that. It's not worth the pain and awkwardness left after you've poured your feelings out, and it almost always ruins the friendship. So stick with your original plan.

 

[Tsunami]

I thought this topic was over with after he wrote that...Honestly I think you should stick to what you said, and just leave it be. There are a lot of truths/realities that you aren't looking into far enough,and you don't want everyone to fill your head with fairytale ideas of how it's a good idea to tell her and get you to do something you'll regret in the future. Trust me, I've been there and done that. It's not worth the pain and awkwardness left after you've poured your feelings out, and it almost always ruins the friendship. So stick with your original plan.

Oh I'm sticking with it, but finding some of the newer posts interesting. Loving how DA summed me up in his nice little paragraph.

Also Sicron, thanks for that.