heh, you should read my posts, i said in one of these i completely admit im guilty of being an arsehole sometimes, but if i am im never purposely trying so, i try my best not to, and i dont want to make other people feel bad.
"I have to take it out on someone else"- the point is you dont, it isnt their fault you get so angry, its your response that is angry, you see two people may view a situation in a different way one could be angry and the other could be completely unphased, nobody has the right to go make other people feel bad just cuz people do it it to you, thats bloody hypocritical and un-ethical. As people, nomatter who they are, they deserve the same respect as any other human being, how does sum guy asking if someone could make him a model justify someone to treat him like crap? im sorry but people arent there to wipe your feet on, if you get frustrated by people and then take it out on others all you are doing is spreading the frustration, and doing something to others you wouldnt like them to do to you. So is it one set of rules for you and one for the rest? i know i may be highly critical, but im amazed at the fact some1 takes pride in abusing people because they think their problems are so much more important than somebody elses self-esteem. Everyone has it hard sometimes, but its no reason to try to offend anyone, what have they done to you? you dont like them, ignore them, its simple, and nobody gets frustrated, nobody gets angry, nobody gets abused, and we live in a better society with less aggressive conflict.
"All of the *****ing in the world isn't goign to stop people from doing it." heh, its this apathy that means things like this arent an issue, the thing is this world would be a better place if people learned to not take their frustration out in an aggressive or hurtful way, and if you dont wanna help that happen then you can expect that antisocial behaviour will stay the same as it is now. Nothings going to change if you sit there and let it happen, i think society is incredibly apathetic these days, hence the crime and abuse rates these days, i think it is a much wider issue than just the internet. In the past society was more stable as people learned the value in respect for each other, now the social policies have changed and we can expect it being totally acceptable to have people being disrespectful to others. Dont get me wrong, people are entitled to their own opinions, but they should respect others opinions as well.
I think ive really lost the plot now, im babbling again, god it happens a lot............
As for these so called noobs, they only ask stupid questions because they only want what they're asking for. They don't wanna bother looking through stickies and all that kinda stuff. They just come onto forums because they're having some sort of problem and want a solution quick. They don't have any interest in being a part of the forum community. But then again, there are those who just have no damn clue about anything... so yea...
