hey guys...never thought i'd do this but..

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i really need help from some1 and i guess i got no1 else to go to. my friends are not helping me that much...

this is the story. there's this girl i met last year on april. ever since then i'm madly inlove with her (yeah...some of you just pressed "back" right now...).
she lives 2 hours from me...in a car that is. the story is too complicated but the bottom line is this. she loves me back but she is mad at me cause some friends of hers told her some false things about me. they sound logical but they are false. that's y she believes them. oh, and she has a boyfriend but she isn't that happy with him. so the thing is this...how do i get her back?? i cant stop thinking about her. stop trying to talk to her? tried that. for 3-4 month we havent talked and i coulndt stand it. i will do anything...i mean anything to get her back. i thought about going to where she lives (a boarding school...if that's how u spell it) and staying there till she comes out and talks to me and we figure everything out. i got nothing else on my mind and trust me - i've tried a LOT of things.

im asking...begging for some1 to help me. i bet some of u were inlove before, so you how it feels, u know how you cant live without the person u love, how you cant stop and cant help of thinking about her...

 

[Gameinformer313]

she loves me back but she is mad at me cause some friends of hers told her some false things about me. they sound logical but they are false. that's y she believes them.

That right there shows that she didnt trust you whatsoever. She shouldve told her friends that she didnt belive them and too mind there buisness. I really dont have the awsner to your question since i never been in this situation..but i do feel for you right now...dude but personally u said u thought about going down there...i say go for it..you really have nothing else too loose right now so just go and talk too her

 

[Kagome]

i really need help from some1 and i guess i got no1 else to go to. my friends are not helping me that much...

this is the story. there's this girl i met last year on april. ever since then i'm madly inlove with her (yeah...some of you just pressed "back" right now...).
she lives 2 hours from me...in a car that is. the story is too complicated but the bottom line is this. she loves me back but she is mad at me cause some friends of hers told her some false things about me. they sound logical but they are false. that's y she believes them. oh, and she has a boyfriend but she isn't that happy with him. so the thing is this...how do i get her back?? i cant stop thinking about her. stop trying to talk to her? tried that. for 3-4 month we havent talked and i coulndt stand it. i will do anything...i mean anything to get her back. i thought about going to where she lives (a boarding school...if that's how u spell it) and staying there till she comes out and talks to me and we figure everything out. i got nothing else on my mind and trust me - i've tried a LOT of things.

im asking...begging for some1 to help me. i bet some of u were inlove before, so you how it feels, u know how you cant live without the person u love, how you cant stop and cant help of thinking about her...

First of all i wanna say that i think its pretty sweet that you still love and care for her so much after all that has happen, that pretty much shows that you really love her and thats a good sign.

As a girl im gonna look at it from my point of view, i would recommend that you go to the boarding school and tell her how you feel, but try not to make it seem like your desprate you never wanna do that. If she truely loves you or still has anytype of feelings for you that you have for her she'll surely come out and talk too you. If she dosent then you get the point right.

Also you said that shes just mad at you, thats not possible it has to be more than that she just wont get mad at u, i mean she went out and found another bf that right there is saying something. She was either too mad and it clouded her judgement which caused her to be with a guy that shes not happy with or she just dosent love you anymore..

If you decide to go talk too her, just tell her how u feel, and basically leave i mean dont try and get to make her descion right off hand, give her time to breathe and think about the situation. Than if she'll make her descion and you'll know from there. And if she decides that she dosent wanna be with than ask for her friendship atleast i mean just dont throw it all away because she dosent wanna be with u so umm yea thats all i can think of, im only 13 so i dont really know what love is atleast thats what my parents tell me or neither do i have experinces in this situation anyway good luck ^^.

 

[Deverz]

Stab her friends in the face, That will solve everything

But seriously, Try telling her how you really feel if you haven't already and try and prove to her what her friends said is false. Regain her trust in you.

It can be hard and annoying at times trying to do the last two things but if you do it right it will probally be worth the time and effort

 

[imported_Mystix]

You need to learn some game. Make her feel like ****, and she'll be on your nutts. :smile:


Don't overdo it though...

 

[EfFeCt]

being serious as i never am.....

I say you find out what her friends told her hunt them down and blow them up......with car bombs....

because i would hate that to happen to me but.
yeah u really should go talk to her man....
just talk ...... i mean she isnt just there to reject you .....
she should talk if she has any love for you...... and if she wont come out.... run to her boarding school andsay its urgent like her mums died or some thing and go up and talk... i would know i goto a boarding school .. it works...

 

[Vegeta]

I've been in a similar jam. I came to realize that the love I felt for the woman was merely an obsession. I got over her, and moved on.

You should do the same. Plus, this girl you're speaking of lives far away from you, no?

Just do what you think is best, that's about all the advice I can give you.

And just remember, there are plenty of fish in the sea. You'll be surprised when you realize that one girl just isn't right for you.

 

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first of all guys, i told her a million times how i feel for her. and i tried another million times to try and convince her that what her friends told her is false...but it didnt work. i know she does love me cause she told me that a few weeks ago and said that if she were not so mad at me and if i haven't "done" these things (which i didnt) she would be with me.

seeing all of you say that i need to go over there and talk to her - guess i will...
10x guys.

 

[JDeezNutz]

i really need help from some1 and i guess i got no1 else to go to. my friends are not helping me that much...

this is the story. there's this girl i met last year on april. ever since then i'm madly inlove with her (yeah...some of you just pressed "back" right now...).
she lives 2 hours from me...in a car that is. the story is too complicated but the bottom line is this. she loves me back but she is mad at me cause some friends of hers told her some false things about me. they sound logical but they are false. that's y she believes them. oh, and she has a boyfriend but she isn't that happy with him. so the thing is this...how do i get her back?? i cant stop thinking about her. stop trying to talk to her? tried that. for 3-4 month we havent talked and i coulndt stand it. i will do anything...i mean anything to get her back. i thought about going to where she lives (a boarding school...if that's how u spell it) and staying there till she comes out and talks to me and we figure everything out. i got nothing else on my mind and trust me - i've tried a LOT of things.

im asking...begging for some1 to help me. i bet some of u were inlove before, so you how it feels, u know how you cant live without the person u love, how you cant stop and cant help of thinking about her...

so you never were in a relationship with her?... i'm confused..ish

simular with me, but without the arguments and lies going arround,,, i had a girlfriend that lived 40 minutes to and 1 hour away from me,,, i was with her for 1 year and 4 months,,, she dumped me because she thought it wasnt going to work out,,, i waited a fecking year and a half for her to figure out it wernt going to work,.,., anyway,,, after she dumped me, i felt my life was ruined,,, but after a week or 2, i jsut thought, it couldnt of been anything special,,, if she said she loves me then dumps me for a **** reason, it shows it wasnt worth it and especially the distance as well...

dont worrie mate, you'll find someone else,,, if she is going to believe her friends more than you, i wouldnt bother with her to be honest!

i know how hard it is to forget about someone you are crazy about,,,i had a crush on this fine girl at my school, but i know i'm not going to get her,,, there are 2 simple options,, try harder and harder until you get your dream or give up, walk away and find someone else just as good?

that girl i ahd a crush on,,,i actually stay on in 6th form because i heard she was going there,,, so i have to wait until september to see her again,,, i dont even talk to her,,, but i am happy with the girl i have atm

i hope it works out for you, love is a *****, love smacks you back in teh face whn you dont want it and ruins your life for a while,,, good luck and hope you can convince her that her so called friends where bull****ting ^^

 

[Texas]

Love isnt just a word. Its prooved though actions. And the fact the girl beleived the false things her friends(?) told her without a second thought indicates that "love" wasent a strong enough factor to beleive you instead of them.

I say dont make yourself look rediciulous and go over there. IF she still loves you, she ought to come to you, she made the mistake and she must make up for it.
If she doesnt, no big deal. Thank God billions of girls exist and im shure there's a match for you.
Just dont feel bad and/or responible for what happened. Since you have your concience clear, you have no problem