help me connect plz

[[HTN] SuperJ]

me and my friend cant join each others games for some reason, can someone tell me why this might be?
he says he cant connect to my ip either....so i dont know whats going on....when he updates the servers, my game is never on the list, and same with the games he creates...so help me please!

 

[Void]

you guys might not have your ports set up for this. If you have a firewall or have a router than your going to need to configure your systems ports.