Well that sure hurts..^^" and i am pretty offended but i guess it is ur oppion right.
I apologize to the girls of the forum for my outburst. You see, if you folks know me a bit personally...you'd probably agree, after all I've been through. The area where I live is filled with *****es whores and psychopaths...I've met girls from as far away as Germany and the midwest...and it was always the same. Always some underlying massive defect waiting to jump out; every new door I'd open into their deeper undersides was a new snakepit waiting for me to fall in. There is one girl who is reasonable--out of my whole 22 years on this earth, ONE NORMAL GIRL--and that girl, though she apparently loves me a great deal and has for years, will never get back together with me for no apparent reason that she can articulate.
We won't even talk about my health problems.
It's just been my experience that society has raised an intriguing problem with women. Because we have so often revered women, a lot of the girls in my area and generation seem to think that they should be revered for being the only worthwhile thing in existence. I have a friend who is an attractive girl, for example, who is constantly asking people for presents. Just stupid material things here or there. Buit she asks for them and when you say why she goes, "cause I'm great and you wanna buy it for me."
Now, the fact that I know one girl like that can be written off that she's a *****. But I know SEVERAL who do the EXACT SAME THING.
I'm ranting too much about women here...but as I said, I apologize for my generalizations. But unfortunately, in my experiences, there's not much to the contrary.
Going on topic, I'd have to say that Deman gave possibly the best advice of the whole thread. It's the best thing you can do really--you don't want to keep her if her heart isn't really in it cause it'll lead to misery and hate down the line and it isn't worth it.
It's tricky, cause like another person said in here, everything you do has a consequence. Well, the problem with that is everything you do actually has EVERY possible consequence depending on the mood and personality of the particular variety of douc...err, I mean, lady...that you're dealing with. For instance:
Saying a girl is beautiful, depending on a variety of variable factors, can change things completely. I won't go into the millions of calculations science is trying to confirm, but I will give examples of possible outcomes:
Sometimes, they will find the above comment to be complimentary. Other times, you will be kissing ass. Still other times, you won't mean it, and they will consider it as bad as if you had said "You look like you were just in a diarrhea-eating contest and lost by a log." Sometimes they will light you on fire. Occasionally, your pets will be boiled. Other times, they might tell you you're a sweet guy. They might give you a hug, or a kiss, or an overjoyed look of happiness. It's a fool's errand to try and predict a reaction, really.
And that's a small percentile of the many possibilities born just from one adjective in one sentence. Of course, this all depends on the girl (personally, I have found maybe a total of three who react based on what you do as opposed to reacting on the mere desire to react how they want).
And to answer the question,
"What girl does not like being told she's beautiful?" its actually pretty simple. Girls in my experience are self-centered, conceited, and self-absorbed--but before most of that, they are superficial and shallow.
Ugly guys or guys they don't want, going around telling them they're beautiful don't count.
Us guys, we'd take it as a compliment from most any girl, if they told us we looked good--even if it was the most hideous ***** ever, we for the most part in my experience would say at least something like "thanks." But if you are ugly by the girls' standards and you tell her she's beautiful, there's two cardinal rules you're breaking:
1.) You're opinion doesn't count if you're ugly and they don't want you, so you're just a desperate loser trying to regail them, in their eyes. It's actually insulting to them, in my experience--"Eww, gross!!"
2.) Girls like to make guys do and think things. Not even relevant things; they just enjoy that control, on a subconscious level they feed off of it. So you thinking they're beautiful to begiun with aggravates them because you don't need convincing, which takes all the fun out of it for them.
It doesn't really matter. It's all just a twisted game of puppet and master for the girls (again with the disclaimer) in my experience.
Now. For those of you who read this massive post...don't you think ICBMs would be simpler?
