i hate to be the "evil" guy in here, but, me and my family seem to attract scams like this, whether it e plumbers who use thier dead wife to increase thier pay, or a door to door salesman that tries to convince you to buy omething from him cuz his family is so ill, they are everywhere
he has that big long stoy typed up, but nobody cries for help on the internet, unless they are trying to scam you, if its true then yeah i feel sorry for him, but thy are HIS problems, not anyone elses