Strong Men...Also Cry

[VuLLs]

if you could not see the sarcastic/comical relief in my first post for the heart broken dude then your pretty dense...

it was factual, not religious fortifying or politics, or even off topic (unlike this crap thats been of recent, just because u all decided to try n flame me for typos and quick grammatical implyers)

the ahem was because you blank out the word *** it comes up as *** and i did not want to write G-A-Y to bypass it; because i know admins hate it when people bypass their cuss thing. and heck, it was simple to decode, for you did after pondering it. not that hard. simple conversations with friends every day would of told u wtf i was getting at.


im done here. have fun finding some one else to flame because they dont want to spend hours typing a point in proper form as if it were a essay for school. could care less ur not a/an important person to judge my writing to a random kid that i do not know or care about their opinions, as do you for me or any one else for that matter.

 

[Sonic the Vampire]

I wasn't trying to flame you, I was pointing out my confusion with your argument. Stop telling me "ahem you know" translates into "homosexual" using common sense. Perhaps if I had heard you speak it, it would have made more sense, but as it was it didn't. I kindly asked you to translate and you're giving me attitude about it.

As I said, feel free to post further in the thread, simply avoid using religion in your arguments, and avoid bringing homosexuality into it. It may have started out like a joke but you took it too far and I had to cut you off, and now it keeps coming up. You can still post in this thread should you see something you wish to respond to; however, I do not appreciate your attitude, and I would ask you to leave it out of your posts from here on out. I do not appreciate being insulted.

The same goes for you, Hito. No more arguing in this thread. Questions have been answered and confusion was cleared up.

Vulls I don't care if "God and George Bush both disagree with homosexuality" is a factual argument, it's unnecessary. This thread isn't about that, it's about somebody having a hard time with a break up and a group of people trying to consol him.

Keep it on topic from here on out. If I see another post about homosexuality or religion that somebody is going to get a warning.

 

[NeLo]

Im agreein, yes girls r natural born liers :cry: , how eva i'm learnin alot from my mistakes with a head ach and sore feet from kickin the ****outta things im not gonna defend females cos i am one cos i lie, i lyed alot and im in **** because of it but i've started thinkin about new things and it hurts, i cant understand myself nomore, thas teh truth im tellin nothin but it now, i hav nothin to lie about cos i hav nothin, im scared about feelins im havin and tired also
i look in the mirror and i feel sick now
im sorry about how we r we dont deserve 4 givness so u shud 4 get about a girl if she lies cos the chances r she might do it again but in time she shud realise how much pain shes put u through i no i hav

u seen strong ,stay tha way DONT let the thing called love f*** ur live up

Thx Mang..See trying to be friends with her wasnt working to well...after we broke up she wanted me to be her friend...tried..got let down..again. So yesterday i told her to leave me alone. She got mad at me..she didnt even listen to all what i had to say. I started off saying i dont wanna let you go but i have to. That set her off...she got mad at me then blocked me. THen i had my friend send her my whole speech.. I told her not to call me nor IM me until i feel like i wanna be her friend. God that was hard..i felt like bursting into tears...im still sad but this is something i have to do for myself. I can't keep those same feelings i had for her..it just doesnt work. So in the end, it was very hard..but its something we all gotta do..just let it go and let it drift away..

 

[SaiyanPrideXIX]

I leave this thread for two days and it turns into a god damn short bus.

First, Kelesk & Pain about the journal: you can read it, only if you have ones of your own that I can link to it. Otherwise it's closed off.

On topic, though, I really feel the need to defend my point of view, here. It seems like I've been pegged as someone who's had nothing but bad experiences and is generally looking at the entirety of the female population as an "evil entity en masse."

I don't think girls are evil. That's just retarded. "Oh, they hurt my feelings, they must all be out to get me!" I had a friend who was like that--before he ever touched any tang, mind you...and it changed right quick once he got some--and it was the most retarded thing ever.

I don't meet a girl and go, "Oh, you're a girl, you must be evil and horrible and amoral!" I give EVERY person I meet a fair chance and 100% of my trust because I like being open about things and about myself; I believe that is the only way any kind of true friendship can ever be born, is if people are 100% up front. How else do you think I get stuck with these people? I give them a fair chance and they deceived me. Well, that's fair game and all...I suppose if I looked at dating the way they did, I'd consider it big game to get a nice guy to pork a whore and defend her honor unwittingly the ultimate prize too.

My only overall point is this--and listen carefully, Sonic: Women are very different than men on all levels, and are difficult to deal with when approached with the same mental viewpoint that you would have when dealing with a male.

Are there exceptions to this rule? I'm sure there are. I've met a couple--in 22 years, A COUPLE, I mean that quite literally, two, three at the most. And even they have their screw ups.

All I'm saying is that when it comes to girls there is ALWAYS more going on behind the scenes than we know about. The only thing that EVER tips us off, as Pain said, is that distant, weak gut instinct that comes on occasion.

Nelo, man, when you think back on it later in life, you might be really kicking yourself if only cause you might have realized that the gut instinct might have been there a couple of times. Sometimes with some of the bad girls I've known, I look back and see minor red flags and I'm like, "how did I not catch that?"

OK my friend , who is a girl , she has been with her boyfirend for 2 years , n she is buff( extremely attractive). She has done everything with her boyfriend and shes even bored of doing it so often. Her boyfriend aint anything special , but he really f*cks her about , he's cruel and mouthy and still expects everything from her.
Now i ask my friend how she puts up with it and why does she put up with it. She says she loves him and she can't imagine being without him , even this all this pain shes going through , she has never cheated on her boyfriend or kept any secrets from him .

Dude, this sort of proves my point. You say the girl is unappreciated, mistreated, and completely unhappy, but sticks with the guy cause she "loves him and can't imagine being without him." Well, just the last part is true. If she's unhappy, dissatisfied, and just staying for the sake of staying, she's NOT in love.

Not all "femalogic" applies only to making men suffer, like people like Sonic have made me out to believe. Most often the girls hurt themselves; staying with junkies or abusive boyfriends, screwing around for the wrong reasons, lying to people, etc.

Before all else people are inherently self-indulgent. That girl doesn't stay with that dude for his sake, because she loves him...she stays for HER sake, because she doesn't know what else to do with herself.

Nelo my man, that's your best bet to roll with. Humankind is an evolutionary species. Like anything--the more you do what you've got to do, the easier it will become in time.

 

[jp]

**** happens, people lie, and deceive, and not only woman.


In fact, I LOVE GIRLS!!! but i have to say something that vegeta once said.

women, they are an enigma!

 

[SaiyanPrideXIX]

True that, man. lol

 

[Godhand]

Damn I feel ownage . I haven't cried since I was two years old. Even when my girlfriend left me after two years of relationship, I was literally crushed, But no crying . Damn, makes me feel like a real man :O . Now most of you think a real man is one that shares his emotions , also one that cries, as for me .. I dunno . Each for his own ;x . I'm proud . But it really sucks what your going true (directed to the first post) . I hope you recover soon , I know how it hurts .