I found out a week ago
Its hard to be as excited with so many issues in the pregnancy, because fear is running rampant. But for a brief moment, I was jumping around in the Ultrasound room. I'm really looking forward to having a son, and I'm positive it will be quite different from the experience of raising my daughter. She's six now, and its been awesome so far, I can't wait to have two of them assaulting me on saturday morning.
Plus I get to play with the boy toys now. I don't mind doing dollhouse stuff with Maya, or putting on puppet shows, but I've seen waaaaaaaaaay to much princess and fairy stuff, I'm ready for transformers and GI Joe
To answer you more directly Raeku, I don't love this child any less. What has changed is you realize all that crap you bought for the first kid isn't neccesary for the second, so this time around things are more streamlined and less stressful on the preparation end. At the same time, there is no uncertainty with how you'll do as a parent. The first time you stare in the first child's eyes, you know you just put the responsibility of shaping another person's life in your hands; that's a very big moment. Its not so impactful the second time, you know what you need to do.