EVM is a really old mod for ESF. Its old, its buggy, dont even waste energy on it.
Grega is telling you to join any normal, regular server.
You were kicked from that server because your ping is too high ie your net connection is too slow for whatever reason.
Try joining a normal, standard server that is close to where you live.
Dont use EVM. Use the default ESF. Then you might have a chance finding a working server.