Relationship problems

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I dont know who else to ask for help, so i thought i could post a thread and hope you guys can help me with this. Ill give the full story. ok, here we go.T

Thursday night, after school, my g/f asked me if i could give her i ride home from school, so i did. Instead of me dropping her off, she wanted to stop by my house to listen to some songs and pick up a cd, and i was like, ok no prob. Well, she ended up staying longer then i exspected her to, so i thought i could take her home when i got done milking in the barn, but i dont know if that was a mistake or not. When i came back in from the barn, she was gone. My mom told me that her dad picked her up, and he didnt look to happy. Im really good friends with her brother and her dad, and i feel horrible for doing that and makeing them worry like that. Well, me and my g/f were trying to keep it a secret from her brother about us going out, cause he doesnt like it when his friends hangout with her, i dont know why, but thats just how he is and if he found out that we were dateing, he would be very upset with me for doing that, and after that night, he found out, and he was very upset. So i want to appologize to her dad about takeing her home and makeing him worry so much. But i dont know what to do with her brother though, i dont know how to fix this so we can still be together and i can still keep my friendship with him.

I need loads of help here, please help me on this.
 
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Ya know asking somebody to help in a situatsion ... Asking how to get back being friends ...
Over internet is a bad idea.... Why... Becous we dont know em like you do... So we really cant tell you whats really right.....

I sugest you to just relax and think abouth the problem... If ya wont find a awnser to fix all of this...
The awnser will find you....And it will be good or bad.. Depending on the people...

Well i cant understand why your friend dosent like that his good and trusted friend goes out with his sister.... I mean would it be bether if he dint know him at all....

Alsow if your a respectable person.... Witch means has good future ... Isent some huligan and sooo on.... The paretns will forgive you....

Well friend... You really soud find out why he dosent like it.... Then we could help....

Feel sry for you man.... But i am sure it will end well.... :p
 

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Just tell them sorry. Ask the brother what his thoughts are on the whole thing. Then tell him how you are gonna treat her (assuming you plan to treat her with the utmost respect). If you do this, and do it properlly, you'll look like a big-man, and the dad will most likely gain a new respect for you. The brother should trust you enough to know you aren't lying, and your woman will be like "Woah tits, you did that for me?"
 
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Owa, you read my mind. Thats what i planned on doing, and i hope it turns out great for both of us. Thanks for the advice, i really appreciate it.
 

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