just for sharing, might help...somehow

[Valeska]

there is something that bothers me....alot
my girlfriend doess the education with handicapt people and dolphin therapie (also with handicapt ppl)
so she just got back from her first week of practical period in turkey (we live in holland/netherlands) we'll for this week i just survived it. since she got only 3 hours a-day free for herself to shower and maybe go on the i-net and send me a e-mail or whatso ever. the rest of the time she has to be with the (hadicapt) children to guide them and watch over them, so the parents have an vacation and won't have to worry about the children and the children can have fun too...

now the main point is. in the summer holiday she is going away again, only this time for 4 weeks (28 days) and i just can't miss her so long. however i don't want to go on without her but i wouldnt also wanna miss her for such a f*cking long time, cuz just imagen what all could happen in 1 month (not talkin about cheating on eachother) but just for a persons mind to change. i dunno really what to think or do.

we even thought about me going also to turkey but, as she has only 2-3 hours a-day off its kinda useless to be there alone and waiting all day for those 2-3 hours.

as for all these years ive seen all these relationship thread on this forum even tho its an DBZ forum, they we're always pretty serious and seemed helping to me, so for this one....help me out and share thoughts

Thanks.

 

[Skyrider]

So, for the moment it is a long distance relationship? Only in those 28 days, or for the rest as well? If she does loves you as much she says she does to you (which I have no idea about), then she wouldn't "change her mind". My GF went also away last summer vacation for over 6 weeks, but never cheated on me, changed her mind, or what so ever.

 

[Jimdapredator]

its just a month it shouldnt be too hard
just stay in solid contact

how long have you been seeing eachother?

 

[Valeska]

now for about a half year,

ps, nice post Skyrider

 

[Desmond Tiny]

well see if you can find a cheap phone provider that will let you call aboard so that she can call you when she has free time because that should make it a bit easier to hear her voice

Also see if you can find a way of spending at least a week out there or something as that way it takes the amount of time you actually spend apart to a minimal amount as well as meaning it doesn't cost you a fortune in travelling and staying there for a month

I bet the time will just fly by as long as you don't dwell on it, go to a gym, go out or just do something that will take your mind off of it and do it often!

 

[Sicron]

Does she have a laptop or something? You can always keep in contact trough MSN, E-Mail etc. If she has internet there, you can always use MSN to talk to eachother instead of using an expensive cellphone provider.

 

[Barney]

I don't think her mind is going to change that much in a month. It's really not that long of a time I wouldn't worry about it bro. Your girlfriend has a pretty cool job though, I'd love to work with dolphins. But yea like someone else said try and go there for at least a week. Even if she only has 2-3 hours off you can still sleep/cuddle with her can't you? That's all you need really. Plus I don't think it's gonna take you 2-3 hours to have sex with her unless you're some kind of crazy sex machine. I wouldn't worry about it.

 

[Pieter Paul Rubens]

I heard dolphins have sex for fun..



Ofcourse, I'm not insinuating anything, just saying..

 

[Hitokiri]

Let's keep that train of thought nestled deep in the station, huh? :yes:

 

[Killface]

Dont sweat something like this. Just think to yourself that nothing bad is gonna happen and everything will be fine when she gets back. Most likely it will be.

 

[Desmond Tiny]

I heard dolphins have sex for fun..



Ofcourse, I'm not insinuating anything, just saying..

Thats a good point

as after a dolphin, what else could she have to go to to fulfil her animal lust? a sperm Whale ? (lol, that has to be the worst joke ever)

on a serious note, at least she still loves you that's more then what most others have

 

[Valeska]

Thanks for all the nice reply's guys really helped me out with the 1 week going there idea.

seems to be an good idea even tho its only for a few hours(sex)

 

[Almighty_Gir]

then don't have sex. have a meal instead or something, she will remember it more, and if you are THAT insecure about maybe she will leave you or whatever, it will convince her otherwise.