You can show your partner you love him/her without having sex. Sure, the sex is great, but it is not the only way.
Some people want to wait until marriage, but that doesn't mean they don't love their partner.
The way you said it came off as "if you don't have sex with me, you don't really love me." Which is nonsense.No, that's because they don't want to go to hell because having sex before marriage makes baby Jesus cry.
Ok, there are other ways to show your love, I agree, but sex is a way to show your love as well. Especially for a young couple.. I mean, if my gf would say that she doesn't want sex anymore, I'd seriously question her love for me (provided that we had sex before). If a couple that has been married for years would stop having sex, you could still say that they love eachother, because afterall, it's been years. Get my point?
That's the kind of **** I hear when some douche is trying to pressure a girl into having sex.The way you said it came of as "if you don't have sex with me, you don't really love me." Which is nonsense.