Off Topic* To Suicider: There was a winner in the war...winning comes at prices, death, destruction, but all for a greater good...Saddam was an evil man who killed his own people...are you saying that removing a person like him from power isn't a victory? What is to come after the dust settles is another thing. Syria...I don't know what the hell they are doing with that...for once I don't agree with my gvt.
On Topic* While classifications are unavoidable, no one has to follow their classifications. When I was in junior high, I really didn't care about much, I had friends, I did what I liked doing, I wasn't popular, but it didn't bother me too much. I moved my freshman year of high school and decided I wanted to be at least a little popular...I was a tennis player and swimmer, two of the most looked down upon sports at my school, but I still was friends with popular people, but not only that, I was friends with just about everyone, if they weren't *******s (I hate *******s). Then I got to college, joined a fraternity and got the big ol drunk frat (I hate that word) boy stamp on my forehead. I decided I didn't want to be that, so I cut back on drinking, and look at me here, I'm a bit of a computer nerd, but no one calls me that, because I also go out on weekends and hang out with people. There is no classification for me besides...cool.
But really, I hate classifications even though I make them myself, I don't think that people should do something because they think they will have more friends because of it, or will recieve more attention because of it, they should do it because they like it...NightShade is obviously into that kinda stuff and so is his wife...they enjoy it...that is the right reason to do something...not to be able to call yourself something or gain attention from others.