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I just returned from a two day trip to my grandparents' farm. It was kinda like a family/family-friends reunion. Quite interesting, having to see the lot of them after 5 years. (I hate trips and visits. Exams bleh) The reason we met was to celebrate the birth of my last aunt's child. My cousin. The funny part is the age difference. I'm going to turn 20 in a bit and he's under two months' old. Kinda hard to swallow that he's my cousin of all things.
Anyway, what really shocked me was how much many of the kids I used to play with on the farm five years ago have grown up. There was this girl, too. (Now you see the title of the thread making sense... lol) I used to play with her all the time when we were kids. She's my dad's school friend's daughter. They own the farm adjacent to my grandparents'. Five years ago, she was kinda like me. Naughty and she was very tomboyish. used to dress like me and the rest of my brothers. Now she's just.... Its hard to describe her right now. Or what I'm going through. She's taller, dresses in girl clothes... 0_o talks like one and likes to shop (wtf).
She's here, now. In my town. Her parents have shifted and its up to me to how her around. o_0
Why wouldn't I? She is really good-looking, a nice girl with a decent head to go with it. No funny stuff about her. But really, is that all that I should look at? Sure she used to be a great pal of mine, but that pal is gone now. All that there is is another girl. But I somehow feel that this is the same person. We didnt get much time to talk, but it feels like she hasnt changed inwardly.
I am not scared of showing the girl around. Its just that I am afraid of doing something foolish. If I were to anger her in a way, just with casual flirting, it would harm our parents' friendship.
OK... Any ideas guys? I could tell her that I'm busy and that I have no time, but that way, I'd be killing my emotions. Or I could take her around, and eventually end up saying or doing something, extremely foolish.
On a side note, It is funny how much people change in five years. Surprisingly so, as a matter of fact. Anyone else experiance such a change?
Anyway, what really shocked me was how much many of the kids I used to play with on the farm five years ago have grown up. There was this girl, too. (Now you see the title of the thread making sense... lol) I used to play with her all the time when we were kids. She's my dad's school friend's daughter. They own the farm adjacent to my grandparents'. Five years ago, she was kinda like me. Naughty and she was very tomboyish. used to dress like me and the rest of my brothers. Now she's just.... Its hard to describe her right now. Or what I'm going through. She's taller, dresses in girl clothes... 0_o talks like one and likes to shop (wtf).
She's here, now. In my town. Her parents have shifted and its up to me to how her around. o_0
Why wouldn't I? She is really good-looking, a nice girl with a decent head to go with it. No funny stuff about her. But really, is that all that I should look at? Sure she used to be a great pal of mine, but that pal is gone now. All that there is is another girl. But I somehow feel that this is the same person. We didnt get much time to talk, but it feels like she hasnt changed inwardly.
I am not scared of showing the girl around. Its just that I am afraid of doing something foolish. If I were to anger her in a way, just with casual flirting, it would harm our parents' friendship.
OK... Any ideas guys? I could tell her that I'm busy and that I have no time, but that way, I'd be killing my emotions. Or I could take her around, and eventually end up saying or doing something, extremely foolish.
On a side note, It is funny how much people change in five years. Surprisingly so, as a matter of fact. Anyone else experiance such a change?